Jefferson Fisher on Instagram: "the best way to shut down a one-upper? don’t compete. don’t defend. just let them talk."

Jefferson Fisher on Instagram: "you’re not stuck in the argument. you’re stuck in the pattern."

I miss you baby I’m so sorry I couldn’t save you 😢😢😢 There’s no way God needed you more than I did 💔💔💔💔💔 I stay up all night searching for answers trying to find something that proves there’s an afterlife, a paradise, heaven, eternal life, anything that feels real enough to believe in. Something that tells me, with some sense of realism, that I’ll find my way back to you.😪😪

Jefferson Fisher on Instagram: "what to say to a backhanded compliment 1. repeat it—slowly. 2. agree with the positive. 3. pause, then say “thank you.” confidence doesn’t defend itself."